Sunday, November 25, 2012

Thanksgiving 2012


I spent Thanksgiving with my younger sister, her husband, five of my nieces and nephews, and their paternal grandmother.  

When I first arrived, I went to the animal hospital where my sister has a private veterinary practice. I greeted the veterinary staff, and went around the back.  I could hear a dog barking in the background, a long haired Chihuahua. 

I greeted my sister and the other staff. A cat wandered over to greet me.

When I went back around to the desk in the front of the hospital entrance, I met a beautiful well behaved dog, a Dalmatian  who I first thought was a stuffed dog, much to the amusement of the veterinary staff.  I was assured me the dog was quite real. Her name is Cassie, and I saw her ears perk up. I went over and greeted this beautiful dog, who gently kissed me. I asked if Cassie was deaf, and the staff said no. Cassie is a dog who stays at the veterinary practice during the day and then her owner comes and picks her up.  My sister then left to pick up one of her daughters from school, and I told her I'd meet her at the house.


My sister set a beautiful table.  Her mother in law made sweet potatoes, pecan pie and a roast pork shoulder that was beyond delicious.  We had that along with turkey and some side dishes.

I could follow the conversation around the Thanksgiving dinner table.  I could follow conversations and participate. My younger sister only had to repeat one word the entire visit when I misunderstood something someone said. 

We each went around the table and said one thing we were thankful for.  I said I was thankful for my surgeon who implanted cochlear implants so I could have the gift of hearing, and thankful for hearing bilaterally with two cochlear implants.


My sister's family has a nine month old border collie puppy, who joyfully adopted me. She brought over a squeaky toy that looked like an octopus, and we played some tug of war.  She has a deep bark that is huge for her size!  She also joyfully greeted me each morning with a face full of kisses.  It was nice to get acquainted with a puppy who loves you back unconditionally.  My sister says the puppy hasn't yet met a stranger she did not like.

I listened to my 14 year old niece play and sing on her guitar.  I listened to all the electronic beeps, boops, and sounds coming from the TV, computers, as they played Wii and other computer games.  I watched my other 14 year old niece play with the puppy, and I could her her playful growl as she played her favorite game with my niece.

I had an intelligent conversation with my brother in law and could respond appropriately without misunderstanding what he said.

While outside, I could hear the twittering of flocks of birds as they flew south on their journey before wintry cold weather returned.

This was the first time I made the journey to my sister's home with two cochlear implants and while I did not enjoy driving in busy interstate traffic during the first leg of the journey, I did just fine.

It was a good visit.  I got to see how my sister's children have grown.  One niece is taller than I am!

Hearing bilaterally with two cochlear implant processors is priceless.  I continue to be thankful for my many blessings.  

 I am still a deaf person who chooses to hear with cochlear implants.  My hearing journey and acquiring new "soundflavorings," continues. The difference is, I no longer struggle to hear when I put on my cochlear implant processors.

So, once again, I give thanks.




Sunday, November 4, 2012

A Month of Thankfulness

This is a month of Thankfulness, as a good friend put it. Thanksgiving will soon be here once again.

I recently learned that my CI surgeon is leaving the hospital where I had my CI surgeries and moving on.  It will be a big loss for the hospital, and I feel so privleged and blessed to have had this internationally famous doctor and to have been his patient.

I have several friends who are having birthdays this month. Earlier I was in a store looking through birthday cards and thank you cards. Not one card seemed to convey "thank you," to my wonderful surgeon. I am so thankful he was able to do both my CI surgeries, and that my recovery in both instances went a lot smoother than I expected.

I did the next best thing.  I composed a letter of thanks to him. I could not have looked into a Crystal Ball in October, 2010, and envisioned how dramatically my life would change.

I am so thankful for the gift of cochlear implants and bilateral hearing.  I am so blessed my younger sister was able to be with me during both CI surgeries, taking time away from her family to be with me.

I am so thankful that both of my sisters were able to be with me during Activation Day, November 2010. 

I am thankful for my many new friends within the cochlear implanted community all of whom I consider my extended family.

I am thankful for each and every opportunity I have to give back to people who are considering cochlear implants, have met candidacy requirements for cochlear implants, and guiding them on their own journey in hearing.

I am thankful for employment, food, water, clothing, reliable transportation, a roof over my head, health insurance, the ability to pay my bills in full every month, friends and family.

I am thankful to the person who invented cochlear implants, and who is still alive today to bear witness to the fact that cochlear implants have changed lives, mine among them.

I am thankful for my wonderful and capable audiologist, who has been patient with me during our mapping sessions.  I still call them "tweaking sessions."

I am thankful that with the cochlear implant processors on, I can hear. 

I am thankful that I can share my blessings with people who are truly in need.

I am thankful for an enriched and improved quality of life because of cochlear implants and bilateral hearing.

Hearing with two cochlear implants continues to be a priceless gift, and I continue to reap blessings in my Hearing Journey.

Here's wishing everyone abundant blessings and grace this Thanksgiving.